Treating your partner as your number one priority
Putting your partner first can sometimes be healthy, but not when you put yourself second. This can be considered a philosophical and spiritual don’t, because it might make you love yourself less. The idea is to look at the love that you have for your partner as the icing on an already amazing cake.
If you make your partner your first
priority, you risk becoming powerless and losing balance in your energy field.
Additionally, if your partner were to leave you, you would become fragile and
it might ruin your life. It is important to learn how to love in a healthy and
rational way that won’t hurt us in the long run.